September 4, 2012


Sometimes you cannot control all the situations of your life. You cannot be a control freak every single time. Things have to go wrong and people have to change. [As clichéd as it may sound, it's the way it (read, life) is.]
You have to go out of your way to face some things.
Yeah, so even if it hurts you and you have to hold yourself together while doing that, some decisions need to be taken and some stories should end.
People will change. Maybe, it's not their fault. Or maybe, it is. But in the end, you alone have to fight for yourself. And it's not like people don't give a damn about you.
They’d always be interested in your life. Remember, I said interested.
And that interest will multiply if your life is off track. #TrueStory
So why show the world you’re vulnerable?
One second! You’re not.

So stop underestimating. Stop demeaning. Stop giving the world your negativity. Stop analyzing things and please, stop finding a reason behind all the happenings of your life.
 You’re not God to know everything. Face the reality. Before that, accept it.
And let it go. Start living your life. Don’t just let it pass.

Talk to your best friend or to somebody from your family or to your close friends.
Cry your heart out. And then close those chapters then and there. You and your friend can maybe bonfire on them, you know! :)

But don’t carry it forward. Sustaining it will make heavy space in your mind and heart. Like they say, keep the glass down.
I agree it’s impossible to completely chuck it in the dustbin and move on. The memories linger. But then, why let the suitcase of bad memories lead?
Yeah, life is too short to wake up with regrets. And befittingly, Life is too short to cry over things that went wrong.
Count your blessings. And when you actually do that, you’ll be amazed at it’s intensity. And you’ll strike a happy realization of you being abundantly blessed.  

Go out! Celebrate good things, happy memories, wonderful people *only* and the power residing in YOU.
Celebrate and elevate yourself! 

PS, “Life is too short to spend your precious time trying to convince a person who wants to live in gloom and doom otherwise. Give lifting that person your best shot, but don't hang around long enough for his or her bad attitude to pull you down. Instead, surround yourself with optimistic people.”
-Zig Zigler


  1. Well..
    I agree. Or wouldn't be wrong saying I second this one. Cause it's a usual thing,whatever happens,like anything,all we do is blame! And get satisfied? No. Not this should be a practice!
    Of course things come in life,you face them up,you fail may be,may be you wont get a second chance even. But life never ends,time never stops.
    So I guess,I love this post. :) very much!

    1. Truly life and time never stops. We should let life play for sometime and then pick it up, dust it off and start all over again!
      Thanks a lot for dropping down these lines. :) Keep reading! :D

  2. Hi.

    Your optimism is infectious. Life and I are not the best of girl friends at the moment and I am constantly trying to change this arrangement. It hurts when your expectations are not met, but then you have no right to expect anything from people in the first place. I learnt this the hard way.

    Life is all about moving on. It is all about living out loud.

    Happy blogging! :)

    1. Heya!

      Yes, life is about living out loud and living with intensity.
      Keep picking up good and keep discarding the bad. That's the secret I've discovered! I wish much more love and happiness for you.

      PS, It feels so good to see a stranger drop in!
      Thanks a lot!
      Keep reading and keep sending love. :)

  3. Got deeply involved while reading... great post :)

    1. Thanks a lot Noopur! :)
      Thanks for the link. I'll surely visit your blog! :)

  4. Hey.. gr8 posts.. dint knew u r sch a gr88 writer. dese r d true feelings in freelosophy sumtyms I feel. I wl surely look 4wd 4 ur new blogs. :)

  5. Freelosophy. Now, why don't I think of such words? :)

  6. Hey there,
    Love the post, Blog Bookmarked ;)

    Keep Writing.


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