Freelosophy

Sometimes you cannot control all the situations of your life. You cannot be a control freak every single time. Things have to go wrong and people have to change. [As clichéd as it may sound, it's the way it (read, life) is.]
You have to go out of your way to face some things.
Yeah, so even if it hurts you and you have to hold yourself together while doing that, some decisions need to be taken and some stories should end.

People will change. Maybe, it's not their fault. Or maybe, it is. But in the end, you alone have to fight for yourself. And it's not like people don't give a damn about you.
They’d always be interested in your life. Remember, I said interested.

And that interest will multiply if your life is off track. #TrueStory

So why show the world you’re vulnerable?
One second! You’re not.

So stop underestimating. Stop demeaning. Stop giving the world your negativity. Stop analyzing things and please, stop finding a reason behind all the happenings of your life.
 You’re not God to know everything. Face the reality. Before that, accept it.
And let it go. Start living your life. Don’t just let it pass.


Talk to your best friend or to somebody from your family or to your close friends.
Cry your heart out. And then close those chapters then and there. You and your friend can maybe bonfire on them, you know! :)

But don’t carry it forward. Sustaining it will make heavy space in your mind and heart. Like they say, keep the glass down.
I agree it’s impossible to completely chuck it in the dustbin and move on. The memories linger. But then, why let the suitcase of bad memories lead?
Yeah, life is too short to wake up with regrets. And befittingly, Life is too short to cry over things that went wrong.
Count your blessings. And when you actually do that, you’ll be amazed at it’s intensity. And you’ll strike a happy realization of you being abundantly blessed.  



Go out! Celebrate good things, happy memories, wonderful people *only* and the power residing in YOU.
Celebrate and elevate yourself! 

PS, “Life is too short to spend your precious time trying to convince a person who wants to live in gloom and doom otherwise. Give lifting that person your best shot, but don't hang around long enough for his or her bad attitude to pull you down. Instead, surround yourself with optimistic people.”
-Zig Zigler